Boundaries 101
When we are tolerating behavior we don't like, it can be because there is a boundary problem. More often it is because we are hooking our...
Five concrete tips for helping someone you love overcome abuse
It is its own painful process to watch someone you care about experience and submit to abusive and controlling behavior. Sometimes, we...
Why he has power over you (it's not what you think)
When we are living in fear of abuse, when we are controlled and threatened by someone else, we usually think it is happening because of...
Is he an angel or a demon?
I was talking with a client the other day and she told me that she couldn't decide whether her ex-boyfriend was a hero who had saved her...
How to know if you are in an abusive relationship.
Good question! What do you need to do to find out if your relationship is abusive or controlling? Do you ask your mom or your friends? Do...
